chore(observability): externalize stack from root compose files

Manage now connects to existing Grafana/Prometheus/Alertmanager instances
and never deploys its own stack.

- docker-compose.yml / docker-compose.dev.yml: removed prometheus, loki,
  alloy, grafana, alertmanager, node-exporter services, the monitoring
  network, and observability named volumes; they now ship only backend +
  frontend. Dev frontend now joins the web network so the Vite dev proxy
  can reach the backend.
- backend: alertmanager_url default is now empty; /api/monitoring/alerts
  and /alertmanager-status return graceful "not configured" responses
  when ALERTMANAGER_URL is unset. Added not-configured tests.
- docker-compose.observability.yml: kept as the optional standalone
  example; header clarifies Manage does not deploy it.
- Removed orphaned combined monitoring/prometheus/prometheus.yml
  (standalone stack uses prometheus.standalone.yml).
- Docs (README, REQUIREMENTS decision log, monitoring-logging-design,
  observability-runbooks, context.md, MIGRATION_PLAN, frontend/README,
  CHANGELOG) updated to the connect-to-existing model.

VITE_GRAFANA_URL / VITE_PROMETHEUS_URL remain as optional frontend
deep-link overrides. .env.example still needs a manual update (safety
policy blocks assistant edits): set ALERTMANAGER_URL empty/optional and
move standalone-only vars out of the root file.

docs/MIGRATION_PLAN.md

@@ -92,7 +92,7 @@ repo/
 │       └── types/
 │           └── index.ts
 │
-├── docker-compose.yml          # Optional unified deployment
+├── docker-compose.yml          # Backend + frontend deployment (observability is external)
 └── README.md
 ```